I was sitting here at my desk today and thinking about relationships, particularily from a woman’s point of view, as that is all I have 🙂
My eyes filled up with tears and my heart was saddedend by the countless of hurts experienced by women through the loss of a significant relationship in their lives and their reactions to that loss.
When a woman is invested emotionally in a marriage, she gives her full self.  After all, in nature, I believe she is the relationship expert to a degree. Women have an interest in the outcome of a relationship and how it’s doing and whether or not it needs a boost. Often times women have the natural intuition to discern a relationship problem , but through one reason or another lack the discernment to be able to determine what to do and whether their emotional reactions are to their own fears, or what is really a relationship concern that needs addressing.
As I think about the countless amount of woman that I know or have experienced in my life that have ended a long term relationship, the one thing that stands out to me, is how they handle their hurt when it ends or they fear it is ending. I really think that when a woman either doesn’t know by example or has never considered how she shows up in her hurts, she can unintentionally do damage that is crushing to herself and the family she invested in. Her own hurts, left unchecked can be devestating to those around her as she is operating from hurt not wholeness.
If you are that woman, my heart goes out to you. Get some support from wise women…….. they are sometimes harder to find that you know!
I’m always open to support, comfort, care and help with suggestions on moving ahead in wholeness……….. I’m here for you…
LJK
Candace
