Where do we find wholeness? We think it might come from a fabulous relationship that we “finally find”, or a great job, or lots of money and material things, or even a great education.
Although finding these things might be the idea of “wholeness” and could be a”popular” thought, its all pretty much based on circumstances and requires a level of control over things we simply don’t have.
Wholeness, comes from a deep and abiding sense of knowing that you are committed to the deepest respect for self and others and showing up in all that you do in life, with integrity. Wholeness comes from not being at war with your own conscience and looking in the mirror, knowing you have nothing to hide or you are ashamed off- based on your own conduct.
When we find the courage to live our lives in honesty and transparency and vulnerability, regardless of others, then we have found the wholeness we seek. Nothing can fill that void created when you are at war within yourself.
I have a key note speaking message that I developed years ago based on personal experience. I often found my friendships with celebrities and their public life challenging, particularly when we became friends and other people wanted to try and access to them, through me.
Here are some things I learned:
“Do the Right Thing, at the Right Time, for the Right Reasons!” “THREE RIGHTS”! TM”- “Empowering Messages for a Quality Life.” © USFW Resources Inc.
Some of the life principles I live by are are:
– Don’t let fear make decisions for you-its always a poor indicator of the real situation. © USFW Resources Inc.
– Give more than you receive- the blessing has been secretly planted in the giving, not the getting. © USFW Resources Inc.
– Demonstrate integrity with the contacts that you have been given. Never use them for gain that is less then integral. © USFW Resources Inc.
– Own your own life. Never ask others for what you must give to yourself. © USFW Resources Inc.
Next time, I will share with you my window cleaning analogy! Stay tuned.
LJK, Love, Joy, Kindness! Pass it on!
Candace
